Joe Shearer
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Haha, yes there are choice words for the Chennai-ites when they come to our part of state and think their "madras kurumbu/rowdigal" can fly.
In Coimbatore we place a high value (traditionally) on being polite and well mannered (and the language of course accomodates that, we use the polite register with strangers+elders, whereas Chennai equivalent uses first name basis register as default which generally we find quite revolting and frankly lazy)...and also we do things somewhat leisurely overall (buying something can get quite conversational on all kind of topics). The weather itself was always quite nice given the calm fragrant air from the Nilgiris. Its all changing for the worse now with way more urbanisation and displacement of the rural and semi rural areas that dotted around the area (my ancestral home used to have forest right next to it where deer used to be when my mom was a small girl, now its city for miles), but there is enough inertia still from before I feel in lot of things still....especially when I see how other parts have changed even more.
Honestly I dont subscribe to the whole andhra to the north thing (and telugus were majority in Madras history for long periods) having much credence for the origins of the Chennai attitude. Its just cosmopolitan city, everything gets mixed, there is not much stoic root culture to ground etc...and people want to say things using one or two words than taking time to structure and be polite etc....again by product of the city commerce etc (I saw same kind of thing regarding the Cantonese in Hong Kong compared to the rural parts of Canton in mainland China).
Many telugu speaking/origin Chennai-ites are known to me, they are very nice people overall and they have contributed much to Chennai area and serve as a strong bridge with another massive and equally significant (and surpasses ours in many ways I feel) southern culture. No real issue with them.
Well, I bloody live there, in their midst; no issues with them, except that you need to sneak into the kitchen and chuck the chilli powder and the gongkura down the drain. And quite a robust attitude towards sex; it is amusing to see them puzzling over northern hypocrisy.