Well with the capture of Kulbhushan your case has become weaker, but try to look at this way, MOST Pakistanis (that I have met) do not hold ill of India / Indians, it only the extremists that they are allergic to. I would suggest, when you have time to go to Lahore, or Karachi OR just Wagah Border, and personally interact with them, you will be pleasantly surprised.
Secondly, and more importantly, India is a convent scapegoat for their follies as well, you have to give them that! After all Surrey Palace, Jeddah Steel Mill, Swiss bank accounts, are all because of India.
What case?
I was talking about the obsession of one country's citizens about the other country. Kulbhushan Yadav is surely not part of this obsession? Do you find Indians placing David Headley as their identification photograph? Do you find Indians wallowing in the dozens of Pakistani agents who are found out every year? Not this one who has been put into the dock under very murky circumstances, but literally dozens. I suggest you look at the dismissive, small news items that report these and gauge for yourself how used we have become to such destabilising efforts, and how little attention we pay to them.
As for Pakistanis met and spoken to, I agree totally with you; my interaction with them, on a sustained, continuing basis in writing, rather than business relations, dates from 2008, from soon after the Bombay attacks. The vast bulk of them are decent people, with no unhealthy obsession with Indian duplicity and treachery. This is a recent phenomenon for me, and dates back perhaps six months. That is when green bhakts began flooding into the Internet.
Since you mentioned India being a 'convenient' scapegoat, quite possibly you are right, but I wouldn't know; like most other Indians, I have not the slightest clue what you are talking about. What is Surrey Place, what does India have to do with the Jeddah Steel Mill, and how are we responsible for Swiss bank accounts? It simply doesn't make sense when you say that these are all because of India. What are these and what does India have to do with them? Please remember that you are speaking to a more than averagely knowledgeable Indian, who does know a bit about Pakistani issues. Of the list, I only recognise Swiss bank accounts, because our politicians and business men had, in the past, pushed in large sums of money into such accounts. How are their deposits anything to do with Pakistan, as I presume that you are suggesting that Pakistani wages of corruption are in some mysterious way connected to India?